During sex I seem to wet myself.
When I have sexual intercourse I find that just before
climaxing, I seem to wet myself or it feels like it. So much fluid comes out
that it soaks the bed and I am very embarrassed.
I have only experienced
this with my current partner and not so long ago he complained that I went dry
very quickly.
I
don't think I wet myself with urine as I am able to go to the toilet afterwards.
I'm getting so
worked up about it that I don't want sex anymore. However, sex is an important
part of our relationship.
RESPONSE
I'm so sorry to hear about your worries.
We've written a lot of stuff about this problem – because it's so very common!
Some women do actually pass urine during sex - particularly if they are Mums (as
you are).
But is it now thought that a substantial minority of females actually pass a
special 'sex fluid', just about the time they climax. (Some experts think this
is the equivalent of the fluid from a man's prostate.)
There isn't anything one can do to stop this sex fluid. But a lot of women –
and their men – are actually proud of it, because it shows how turned on they
are.
What you need to do now is to see a doctor who is experienced in this field –
mainly to try and find out whether it is urine or a sex fluid you are producing.
(Tip: try and take some of the liquid along to the consultation in a sterile
container – your GP's surgery will give you one.)
I suggest that the best place to find such a doctor is in one of the various
Family Planning Clinics in in the town where you live.
Yours sincerely
"Swingerlover"
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